Pain is no longer my friend.
For years, pain wasn't the worst thing. I could tough it out. I used to play basketball in high school with plantar warts burning on my feet. I gave birth to two girls naturally. I walked through the shops on the Oregon coast for two weeks with plantar fasciitis. I don't like pain, but I've never had difficulty handling it.
Now, any pain that arises scares me. Back surgery will do that to you. I wonder why the pain is there. Did I do something wrong? Did I do something to cause it? Am I forgetting something? I don't just deal with pain anymore, I question it. I question myself.
This will probably not be the case forever, just until I see the doctor and he gives me the "all clear."
Years ago, my husband and I were pregnant for the first time. At 7 weeks, we lost the baby. Fortunately, I got pregnant again 2 months later. I essentially held my breath until our first appointment with the doctor. After the ultrasound and hearing the heart beat that was twice as fast as our previous baby's, I started breathing again.
Fear can take hold until an assurance comes along to let us know there is nothing to fear.
The Bible says "Fear not, for I am with you." That should be all the assurance I need. I don't need to worry or fear about the unknown. I don't need to question every movement. I don't need to hold my breath. Fear should not be a part of my day. I simply need to trust and know.
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