I landed in the airport knowing that I would have to take a cab to the college. I expected a line of cabs waiting outside just like in my hometown airport. I exited the airport to find an Uber driver and some hotel shuttle vans. My heart sank. I wasn't exactly sure what to do. I went back inside to either add the Uber App to my phone or to call a cab. I wasn't sure what would be best. I was definitely in uncharted territory. Other passengers from my plane passed me by. I was tempted to ask if anyone was going to the college, but I couldn't bring myself to ask a stranger for a ride. I later found out that a fellow students was on that flight, was headed to the same dorm I was, and he also had to take a cab. However, since we weren't wearing name tags or carrying signs, we didn't discover that truth until we had both spent a couple meals worth on cab fare.
Just as I was about to dial the number for the cab company, a van pulled up with the familiar yellow taxi sign on the top. A tall lady asked where I was going and assured me she could get me there. I didn't let her take my backpack because in Washington DC, they charged extra if they touched your bags. Later, I found out she wanted to take it because she wanted to help me. It would not change my fare. I felt a little badly for thinking the worst, but also knew I was using the only foreknowledge I had.
I settled into the back seat. She showed me her fare. She wanted me to know, but she didn't want to make a big deal about it. She kindly asked me questions about what I was doing. When I told her I was getting my Master's she praised me for my hard work and encouraged me to go for my PhD. I can't imagine considering that right now. She was adamant that if I can learn more, I should.
I discovered she originally came from Serbia. She'd only been in the area for about a year, but she had spent a lot of time in Alaska working. She was a hard worker, she was a business woman. She was educated, and she was determined. She started this cab company as her retirement. I enjoyed my conversation with her. I enjoyed the connection.
I shared my blog with her in hopes she would read it. Many of the things she believes are things I try to put words to. I've found people like it when I put words to their deepest feelings, thoughts and beliefs. It's kind of like drawing that perfect picture of the thing you see in your head. She gave me a hug and her card. If I ever need a ride, she will be the first one I call. She knew how to use her job as a ministry. She ministered to me. She was simply a kind person who paid attention.
Ultimately all we need to do to make a person feel amazing is pay attention to them and genuinely care. Thanks again for the ride and the conversation, Jazzy, you are a treasure.
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